An account of Baby Afton documented by his father and approved by his mother.

 

 

In Reverse Order

 

November 17, 2006

 

O.K. it's time for an update.  Afton has finally kicked the seizures as of a few weeks ago.  Unfortunatley, the side effects from the new drug combination present new challenges for him.  Insomnia and gas have recently taken the place of Aton's seizures.  Gas builds up in his stomach every five minutes or so and he gets very squirmy and uncomfortable.  We ventilate his stomach, by way of a "vent tube" through his mic-key button (feeding tube), and then the fireworks start as air rapidly escapes and he gets some relief for that moment.  His insomnia eventually develops into exhaustion which leads to some sporadic short daily naps and sleep every few days.  With all that said...

 

Afton is amazing.  His therapists have been politely coming over to work with him for months.  He has rarely been in the mood for therapy of any kind.  These last few seizure free weeks has them all excited because he is alert, fighting, and thriving.  He weighs about 20 pounds and is tall and skinny.  He is a no longer our baby, he is our little boy and the highlight of our lives.  We call him "Buddy" and we are very, very proud of him. 

 

We have hundreds of pictures but very little time to manage this website.  We will absolutely find the time to post these new pictures properly so please come back to visit soon.  Happy Thanksgiving, Aftons Dad.  P.S. His smile has returned :)

 

 

Monday July 3rd, 2006

Afton's seizures returned on June 11th and they have not let up despite the three medications he is taking to control them.  Three days before his first birthday he became seizure free and stayed that way for seventy-one days.  The return of seizure activity brings a different type of seizure than the infantile spasms he previously had.   We are not yet sure what classification these new seizures fall under.

 

Afton's first two teeth broke through last week.  OUCH!  His gums have been sore for months and are now worse.  He produces large amounts of saliva that results in him aspirating (choking).  This means that the very loud suction machine is on non-stop to vacuum out his trach. 

 

Afton weighs 16.5 pounds and is looking more like a little boy than a baby.  He eats every two hours around the clock.  The downside of all these feedings are the gas and secretions they create so about the time he calms down it is time for him to eat again.   

First Steps of Missouri sends four therapists to the house weekly.  He receives vision, physical, occupational, and speech therapy.  Each session lasts one hour and he has shown nice improvement in all of the areas.  His therapists have recommended that we get him a special wheelchair/stroller called the Kid Kart Express to help him with positioning and mobility.

 

Months ago we reported that Afton was approved for the Sarah Lopez Waiver (for overnight care) however, this did not pan out. 

 

We would like to thank the members of the Optimist Club of Independence Missouri for recognizing Afton's needs and thinking of our family.     

 

 

Saturday April 15th, 2006

Happy Easter and Happy Birthday!  Afton is having a good week and his last seizure was several days ago.  A third seizure med was prescribed for Aftons stomach pain.  The medicine instantly worked for his pain and low-and-behold he stopped having "infantile spasms" from the very first dose.  It took a few days to find the correct dosage for him, which, turned out to be one-fourth of the prescribed amount.

 

Things went downward for Afton just one day after we updated the news section of this website.  He was up for days with severe stomach pain and eventually could not hold his food down.  We got him into the emergency room and then he was admitted to the hospital.  The next day he had a successful surgery to retrieve the "button", a mushroom shaped piece of plastic from his first gtube, which had been stuck in his stomach and intestine.  We brought him home the same day of surgery after proving that he could keep his meals down.  The pain showed up again a few days later.  This time he was able to hold his formula and meds down.  March was a very difficult month for him.

 

Afton's mom found a brilliant new G.I. doctor that believes in a gut and brain connection.  He agreed to fit Afton into his booked schedule on March 31st.  He told us that he had recently prescribed a drug called Neurontin to a very little girl from Phoenix who has Holoprosencephaly, pain, and is a poor eater.  She started eating and thriving with ninety percent of her pain disappearing.  The doctor was quick to prescribe this same drug to Afton.  We are happy to say that the Neurontin along with the other two seizure meds are working to control his seizures and pain.     

 

Afton had his first birthday on April 4th.  He was a bit woozy from the effects of the new drug but he managed to stay awake for most of the celebrating.  He looks huge next to his newborn cousins Jack and Jonah. 

 

Thursday March 2nd, 2006

Thank you for coming back to check in with Afton!  I promise I will try to do a better job on keeping this website up to date.  Afton is one month away from his first birthday and we are planning on making it a big deal and a special day for him.  We are so proud of his progress and inspired by his will.

 

Afton has new friends at the Missouri Regional Center who helped him get approved for some medical financial assistance through a Missouri grant called "The Sara Lopez Waiver".  While he has been approved we have yet to hear from the organization.

 

An update from Mom:

A second seizure medication was added to the previous one prescribed.  It is a very low dose and we have seen a slight decrease in the severity and frequency of the seizures well continue to work on this until it is controlled.  A doctor/neurologist from the Carter Centers was encouraging regarding the seizures after reviewing Afton's MRI and CT scans.  She determined that the part of the brain that controls seizure activity is in tact and formed correctly and hopes for him to be seizure free after outgrowing these infantile spasms.

 

Mom and Dad's night help is so reliable that we often pinch ourselves to make sure its real.  Although Afton has really been making her work for her money!!

 

Vision therapy is a very enjoyable and positive experience around our house weekly.  His therapist and parents are so impressed with his skills and determination.  He is working on cause and effect actions so practicing knocking over blocks and "giving five" is his new homework.  He also loves his occupational therapist (we call her his girlfriend) and enjoys impressing her weekly also.  He is playing possum with his physical therapist and waiting for just the right moment to reveal to her how much  he is capable of..sorry Tara, please dont give up on us! 

mic-key button

 

Yesterday the g-tube got switched to a mic-key button to the dismay of all three of us.  The stopper on his original button broke off so we came up with a temporary fix to get through the night and made a trip to the surgery clinic for a permanent fix.  We do like the mic-key button better but would have preferred not to have to put him through the "procedure" if you will.  We learned that the standard procedure for removing an existing g-tube is by pulling it out of the stomach by force ( the part of the tube that is inside the stomach is a firm piece of plastic shaped like a mushroom to keep it in place) ough!  His button did not want to come out the standard way so it was cut just above the skin and the plastic piece now has to be removed by passing it in his stool, ough!  We also visited the pediatrician yesterday and were glad to see that he now weighs 14lbs 6oz and is 26.5 inches long -  we can hardly keep him in clothes that fit because he keeps getting so long.  He received his last dose of the RSV vaccination and is very happy to be done with that I'm sure.

 

One of Afton's Great Grandpa's will be turning 80 this Saturday so he will be with him enjoying cake and ice cream and dreaming of next month when his 1st birthday rolls around.

 

Afton had two second cousins born one week ago today by sisters Angie and Rachael. 

Congratulations to:   Angie and Clint and welcome to the family baby Jack

                              Rachael and Darren and welcome to the family baby Jonah

 

He continues to be the most handsome little man we know!

 

Wednesday January 25, 2006

We drove Afton to St. Louis a couple of weeks ago for a Neurology appointment which led to a new seizure med.  This new medicine seems to work better and is known to have fewer side effects than the last few that were prescribed.  Seizures are a real downer.  We have yet to see a genuine smile and his development has slowed significantly.  How about some good news. Afton has gained a good deal of weight and he is the most handsome little man we know!  He loves all that the Noggin Channel has to offer and likes to watch “Franklin” during breakfast.  We will try to keep you better informed.  The Dad.

 

Tuesday December 20th, 2005

Afton was discharged from the hospital last night and we drove him home safely.  The general opinion at the hospital is that Afton developed metabolic acidosis that may have been caused by his seizure medicine Topamax, which comes with a common side effect of acidosis.  They could find no evidence of infection or virus the entire time that he was admitted, although early on he was treated as if he had a stomach virus through “standard” I.V. fluids that contributed to the negative impact of the problem.  His I.V. fluids were eventually changed to a mixture that helped turn the acidosis around and on Saturday his seizure med was changed to Felbatol and his blood levels eventually stabilized within normal levels.  He started back on his formula Sunday morning and proved that he could tolerate his meals.  We will monitor him closely and follow his Pediatrician’s orders.

 

Friday December 16th, 2005

Last night Afton emptied his entire stomach contents on to his clothes, and Dad, just as he was being discharged.  He followed the vomit with a huge seizure an hour later.  Hopefully, he will have better success with his meals today.

 

Thursday December 15, 2005

Afton started eating yesterday and has since had great success in keeping all his meds and fluids in.  The tests for infection have come back negative and his blood work is now back to normal.  The Doctors think that Afton has caught the same forty-eight hour virus that most of their other patients have, but they have no way to test for this since there are so many bugs out there.  Hopefully he will be enjoying Christmas at home.  He may be home as soon as today.  He has had a very rough week and we are relieved to hear some good news.

 

Tuesday December 13th, 2005

Afton could not keep any fluids in his body on Monday so we made a trip to the emergency room.  He was soon admitted to the hospital early Tuesday morning and we are now waiting for a diagnosis. 

  

Friday December 9th, 2005

Afton had successful surgery yesterday and today he is recovering in his hospital room with pain meds and formula.  Two surgeons preformed separate procedures.  The ENT Surgeon probed Afton's nasal cavities and trach region.  He found that Afton's nasal passages are growing and would like us to schedule another scope in the spring.  The General Surgeon performed a short and successful gastrosomy, which is an incision in the stomach for a permanent solution to feeding and medicine delivery, and had Afton in recovery by late morning.  We expect to have Afton home on Saturday.  (Update:  Afton made it home on Saturday Dec 10th)

 

Wednesday December 7th, 2005

We met with the anesthesiologist today and Afton is scheduled for surgery first thing in the morning.  The procedure will last about an hour and a half.  We will be rooming with Afton overnight tomorrow at the hospital.  We will try to update the website from the hospital.

 

Sunday December 4, 2005

Afton had a cold all last week but he woke up feeling better today.  We had to switch seizure medications last week because the first perscription seemed to cause more harm than good.  He is having about half as many seizures as he was before although, we do not expect to see his them go away entirely.  We are thankful that he is having them less often but it is very difficult to watch him go through it.  We loose him for a while. 

 

We will be meeting the anesthesiologist on Wednesday to see if Afton is up for surgery on Thursday.  An ear nose and throat surgeon is going to take a look at Afton's nasal passages at some point during the surgery to let us know if they have grown.  His findings may give us an idea of when we can expect Afton to breathe through his nose instead of through his trach.    

 

Tuesday November 22nd, 2005

The EEG confirmed that Afton is having infantile spasms and the Neurologist prescribed a daily dose of Zonegram, a capsule, instead of ACTH, an injection, because of a conflict with another medicine that Afton is currently taking.  This also meant that Afton did not need to be observed for 48 hours because the ACTH had more cause for possible side effects.  We had Afton home and dosed around 9PM.  After 24 hours there has been no improvement in seizure activity and we do not expect it for a while.  The orders are to increase the dose weekly for three weeks.

 

Aftons seizures look like the startle reflex in slow motion.  His eyes glaze over and start to roll and his neck arches back and both of his arms slowly extend from his waist to over his head.  He goes back to a normal state and then it starts over about every eight seconds.  This lasts for about 5 minutes.  He goes through this every hour and a half to two hours whether he is awake or asleep.

 

The doctor expects that the infantile spasms will go away but they will most likely be replaced by more severe seizures.

 

Afton is going to concentrate on turkey and stuffing for the next few days - gobble gobble.

 

Sunday November 20th, 2005

Afton started having seizures a few days ago.  His Neurologist is scheduling an EEG for tomorrow and claims that ACTH, Adrenocorticotropic Hormone, injections are effective for "infantile spasms".  Afton will be admitted to Children's Mercy where he will be monitored for 48 hours if this turns out to be correct.  We will post updates daily.  Afton is also scheduled for Gastrostomy Surgery on December 8th.  This will allow us to discard the NG-tube that is currently located on his face and through his nose to his stomach.  The new tube, a G-tube, will go through his abdomen and directly into his stomach.

We have many pictures of Afton enjoying Halloween, friends, care workers, and family to post as well as a whole month of updates.  He is growing nicely. 

 

Friday October 21, 2005

Afton is handling his formula much better this week and is sleeping a little more sound.  He seems to be fascinated with his surroundings such as the colors from the television and the familiar sound of voices from the kitchen.  His face lights up when he trades from the arms of one of his parents to the other.  He smiles when he is kissed. 

 

Tuesday October 3, 2005

Afton had his pediatrician visit yesterday for his six-month checkup and immunizations.  He weighs 11 pounds 4 ounces and measures 22.5 inches tall!  That is real progress!  The Doctor was happy to hear that we have not had many emergencies but was very insistent that we keep Afton away from situations that could lead to catching a flu virus.  We agreed to have the entire family (all three of us) sign up for the flu shot as to avoid any plastic bubble scenarios.

     Afton has recently learned to laugh.  When he feels well, we can always get a smile out of him. 

Update: Afton's concert pictures are posted - click on the link above.

 

Tuesday September 27, 2005

Thank you, thank you, and thank you!  Afton's Concert on Saturday night turned out to be a great success!  The event was incredibly well organized and executed.  The music was fantastic and the attendance was high.  There are so many people to thank starting with the organizers: James Hershberger, Rod Galpin, Tara Matthews, and Chris Bowers.  The bands: Beth Vernon and Andy Oxman, Milkman Daddy, and Six Months In.  The volunteers: Angela Harris, Jim and Leslie Bowers, Tina Dermatt, and Tracy Huffman.  The Sponsers: Clancy's Cafe & Pub, Tims Pizza, Will Patterson Photography, Independence Audio, Hy-Vee, Jin Wang from the Kansas City Royals, Centerline Volleyball, Sandy Gravilles Nails and Tails, State Beauty Supply, Hollywood Tan, Bolero, Soundworks Teaching and Recording Studio, Bella Gente Hair Studio, and a few other individuals that donated items.  Promotion: Jean Gard & Blue Springs School District and 90.1 FM's "Spotlight Sessions".  Thanks to Mendi Winslow for helping James create the flyer.  All the attendees that decided to share their Saturday night with us. 

 

We feel blessed to be surrounded by a community of such caring and amazing people.  Afton is in good hands and excellent company.  We thank all of you! 

This is the last week for Afton's night nursing visits.  Please check back for the latest pictures from the concert.  

September 8th, 2005 

More on our sneaky friends... we found out that the "Afton's Army" T-shirts were originally going to be the name of a volleyball team and the idea just grew from there.  Instead of having a few shirts printed up for the team they had 100 shirts made and are selling them on Afton's behalf.  There are still some shirts available if you are interested you may contact Rachel Galpin by e-mail at rachgalpin@hotmail.com

 

These T-shirts will come in real handy because Afton's same sneaky friends have organized a silent auction and benefit concert.  Afton's concert, named Afton Aid, will feature local bands including:  Beth Vernon and Andy Oxman (Duo),   Six Months In,  and Milkman Daddy (bands are listed in order starting at 7:00PM).  

The concert will be held at:

     THE JACKSON COUNTY CONFERENCE CENTER

     2111 Television Place

     Kansas City, MO 64126   

     Come out on SEPTEMBER 24th  doors open at 6:00 PM  and festivities start at 7:00 PM. 

      http://maps.google.com/maps?q=2111+Television+Place,+64126&spn=0.018133,0.034450&hl=en 

Organizers: Chris Bowers 816-517-1125, Rod Galpin 816-699-1228, and James Hershberger 816-213-5503

 

We are absolutely amazed at how thoughtful, generous and supportive our friends, family, and even those we don't know have been over the last few months.  Before we even learned about the T-shirt and concert surprise, the Kindberg family, of Blue Springs and owners of "Hollywood Tan", raised and matched some money for Afton's piggy bank.  We don't even know how to begin to thank you all for your unconditional kindness and thoughtfulness - from the bottom of our hearts a HUGE Thank You and we love each of you very much!!!   

 

How is Afton?

We could not get Afton to sleep for a few days after the party.  It was not due to all the fun and excitement, but rather, the gas, constipation and horrible cough he had developed.  He was so uncomfortable that we decided to make a trip to the emergency room on Saturday night of August 27th.  After six and a half hours, two sets of chest x-rays, lab work, blood cultures, careful observation and lots of prayers all of the tests came back negative.  We left with a clean bill of health and were able to breathe a sigh of relief.  A week later the pain started to flare up again and we decided that we would try yet another formula.  Our thinking was that his symptoms could not get any worse than what he was already experiencing so we switched to nutramigen, or "predigested" formula.  We are not sure as to who digested this stuff in the first place, but since Afton's Pediatrician recommends it, we thought we would give it a chance.  This threw his system completely off and we ended up with the same pain and liquid stools.  Mom decided to go with a fifty-fifty blend of goats milk and nutramigen formula.  This has cured the pain but we have not yet reached a happy medium.

                                     

We hope to see you at the concert on September 24th

 

August 25th, 2005

Afton's friends are sneaky.  Clever people with huge hearts... and very sneaky.

 

We invited some families over for BBQ tonight to celebrate the birthday of our friend Rod.  Our first guests entered our house wearing matching t-shirts that read "AFTON'S ARMY".  We knew that some of our friends had used this name for their volleyball team earlier in the summer and they had some t-shirts printed up, but we did not realize there were so many t-shirts left over.  We both asked, "Where can we get one of those?"  The standard answer was, "we might have a few left for you."  Something sneaky was brewing.

 

I'll have to get back with you on this one a little later.

 

August 2nd, 2005

Good News!  Today, Afton's insurance company has decided to overturn their decision regarding his private/skilled duty nursing.  This means he will have a night nurse with him at the home every night for the near future! 

 

Afton is guzzling down goats milk this past week.  Yep, real goat's milk from a real goat.  He seems to be enjoying this much better than any type of formula, including soy.  His Pediatrician did not seem to mind so his mother jumped right on the goat milk craze that is sweeping Jackson County.  Here is exactly how it works:  Rod, the Farmers Father picks up the goats milk from a farm in Sibley, MO, and takes it to work with him in Oak Grove, MO and drops it off with Todd, a friend of ours.  Todd keeps the milk cool until he drops it off to Afton in Blue Springs, MO, which is on his route home to Lees Summit, MO.

 

Pooping is hard work though.  All that milk eventually has to find a way out and that is when the fireworks really begin!  Mom has been adding a little dark Karo syrup to a few bottles a day and that sometimes helps, but for the most part Afton is uncomfortable very often because of constipation.  She is now giving him aloe vera juice in place of the Karo syrup to see if it will be more effective and productive...we will keep you updated. 

 

Happy Birthday to Afton's deceased grandpa John R. Jacks of Sedalia and Moberly, MO.

 

Monday July 11th, 2005

How is Afton?

I like answering this question.  Lately I respond to it something like this.  "You would never know that anything is wrong with him."  He fuses sometimes when he tries to make a dirty diaper or when we handle him with our cold hands.  We have to burp him often during his feedings or he becomes restless and will sometimes spit up.  I am sure these are everyday issues with most babies.  Next, I imagine we will be dealing with teething pain.  His sodium levels are normal and the medications seem to be working as prescribed.  He still need help keeping up with his meals.  By day, he eats by bottle and at night, he feeds by tube.

 

How are Mom and Dad? 

We are grateful.  We are enjoying our sleep when a night nurse or a grandmother looks after Afton.  Shauna is officially a stay at home mother and I have become an unassuming workaholic.  Baby time is bittersweet and this is a very happy time for us.  His insurance company only approves Aftons home nursing, called "In Stay" until the end of July.  His growth hormone coverage is still in appeal as well.

 

Tuesday June 21, 2005

Afton has had a stomach virus since Thursday night and just now seems to be getting over it.  He has been acting very restless and irritable.  His Pediatrician had us give Afton "pedialite" to help him cope with the stomach pains.  We have had a rough few days and nights helping him try to fight this off.

 

The Night Nurses are meeting with us today to give Afton an assessment.  They could be spending the night as early as tonight!   zzzzzzzzzz

 

Thursday June 16th, 2005

Our Pediatrician called to let us know that he is getting us in-home nighttime nursing care for Afton!  Yes, you have read that correctly, real-life red-blooded live licensed nurses here in the comfort of Afton's home sweet home!  We do not know when this will happen but we are very excited.

 

First Steps, Reach for Kids and Childrens TLC all met with Afton and us on Monday to develop an in-home plan for therapy for the next six months.  They have agreed that Afton would receive weekly occupational therapy visits and a monthly physical therapy visit.  These are one-hour sessions administered by therapists employed by Childrens TLC.  The OT (Amanda) started on Wednesday Afternoon and worked with Afton on positioning and feedings.  This is all free somehow for special needs children and greatly appreciated.  You can find out more at: www.childrenstlc.org

 

The fine people that produce Afton's growth hormone sent us two free vials of Nutropin to get us by while we are in appeal with the insurance company.

 

There is a lot to smile about!

Goodnight Afton.

 

 

Tuesday June 14th, 2005

Updated pictures - click on the "latest pictures" link (above).  Afton had some professional photos taken last week and the photography studio has a cool website to view these pictures - click on this link to view: and the enter the password afton http://www.photoreflect.com/scripts/prsm.dll?EventFrame?event=01CQ01VD

Check for news tomorrow.

 

Wednesday June 8th, 2005...SORRY THAT IT HAS BEEN SO LONG!

 

Afton had his wellness exam on Monday with his Pediatrician.  He weighed in at 7 pounds 5 ounces and measured 19.5 inches long.  Like other babies at two months, he received all of his immunizations at this visit.  I was under the impression that these needles would be small, you know for babies and all, but no these were big needles attached to huge syringes that went directly into his tiny thighs.  His face turned tomato red but he finally calmed down just long enough to have blood drawn from his arm for the weekly sodium level check, which checked out just fine.  This means the DDAVP dosage is correct!

 

The Pediatrician told us there is an eighty percent chance that Afton will soon require a g-tube.  This means surgery and possibly an overnight stay in the hospital.  Afton is not making any substantial progress with bottle feedings.  The Pediatrician wrote a referral for an Occupational Nurse from Childrens Mercy to work with Afton.  This Nurse works with baby feedings full time.  If this does not work out, we are expecting the G-Tube.  What is a G-tube you ask?  Below is some info I copied from a government site:  (See below)

 

Shauna and I are still taking shifts to watch over Afton at night.  I stay up with him, in our living room, until four A.M. then Shauna takes over until late at night.  Grandma Jean has been staying up with him on Friday Nights and Grandma Sue oversees him on Saturday Nights.  Aunt Jennifer spent two Tuesday nights and would like to make it a regular thing.  We love the nights when we can both go to bed!  We especially appreciate this!  We love you!

 

Afton is beautiful.

 

Gastrostomy Tube Feeding

Gastrostomy tubes are well suited for long-term enteral feeding. Patient comfort with gastrostomies is an advantage over NG tubes. Gastrostomies do not irritate nasal passage, esophagus, or trachea, cause facial skin irritation, nor interfere with breathing. Gastrostomies are stable and more physiologic, allowing continued oral eating. There are button gastrostomies and other skin level feeding tubes that are easily hidden under a child's clothing. These require less daily care and interfere less with a child's movement. Gastrostomies use a large-bore tube, which allows a more viscous feedings and decreased risk of tube occlusion.

 

Afton currently has an ng-tube: Nasogastric Tube Feeding

The nasogastric (NG) tube usually is used when tube feeding will be required for a short time (i.e., less than three months) although in some cases it can be used for several years. The major advantage of nasogastric, nasoduodenal, and nasojejunal feedings over gastrostomy or jejunostomy feeding is they do not require surgery. Therefore, they can be started quickly and they can be used either for short periods or intermittently with relatively low risk.

The disadvantages of NG feeding include nasal or esophageal irritation and discomfort (especially if used long-term); increased mucus secretion; and partial blockage of the nasal airways. Nasogastric feeding may contribute to recurrent otitis media and sinusitis. With infants, NG feeding can decrease the suck/swallow mechanism. Two additional disadvantages are the possibility that the tube will perforate the esophagus or the stomach and the possibility that the tube will enter the trachea, delivering formula into the lungs. If formula enters the lungs, severe or fatal pneumonitis can result; therefore, it is essential to confirm that the NG tube is in the stomach before feeding begins.

 

Monday May 23rd, 2005

Afton had a photo shoot with Johnny Dare today!  Bikers for Babies have their annual event at the Kansas Speedway every year in September.  Corin Gilbert, Community Director for the March of Dimes, invited us to have Afton involved.  The proceeds go to the March of Dimes and Johnny Dare has been involved with the event for sometime.  Johnny Dare is a Kansas City morning radio personality for "98.9 The Rock" and his show has ruled the ratings for years.  Studio 1, a professional photography studio, donates their location and services to produce photographs with Johnny and a few babies.  We had a great time and Afton was able to stay awake for about half of the "shoot".  Johnny Dare was very friendly and funny and made us feel relaxed with the whole thing.  There was another baby named Cadence, a preemie from Tonganoxie Kansas, who followed Afton's session.  Her parents were big fans of Johnny and you could tell that they were super excited.  We will post these pictures to the web the minute we receive them! 

 

Wednesday May 18th, 2005

Afton's Home Health Nurse made her last visit to the house today.  I think she has been to see him three or four times now.  She said she probably would not need to see him again because he is getting all the care he needs at home.  Tomorrow he will start his physical therapy at home and Friday he has an appointment at Childrens Mercy with the Endocrine Doctor.  We hope that the Doctor will cut back on drawing Afton's blood from every other day to maybe once a week.  We will see.

 

The pharmaceutical company that manufactures "Nutropin", growth hormone, called today and informed us that our insurance company, United Health Care, has denied our claim for their drug.  Nutropin costs $557.81 per vial and Afton needs two vials per month.  Afton needs a growth hormone supplement because his body cannot produce it.  We are sure that the insurance company knows this.  The Nutropin rep said that United Health Care usually denies Nutropin the first time for all claims that come across his desk.  They are going to appeal the denied claim.  This is scary since Aftons dosage will certainly increase as he grows which means it will be much costlier than it is now.

 

Sunday May 15th, 2005

Afton is tugging right along.  He has finished four bottles of milk on his own this week!  His temperature is always normal, he loves to sleep and he is just now starting to smile.  He has a lot to smile about!  Afton has a standing order to have his blood drawn every two days to check his sodium levels.  We go about this in three ways: a home health nurse comes to the house, we drive to the lab in Blue Springs or we drive to Childrens Mercy downtown.

 

We are getting accustomed to the care and feeding of Afton.  The hardest part for us is coordinating sleep and trying to stay awake.  We are still taking shifts so at least one of us awake and with him at all times.  We were able to get a break on Friday night when Grandma Gard came to the house to do an "overnight".  

 

I started a new page on this website labeled "Latest Pictures".  I will try to post them as I take them.

 

Wednesday May 11, 2005

Afton is doing well.  We are still at home and VERY BUSY!  Afton needs care 24/7 so we take shifts sleeping in the night. 

 

It was great to have Mothers Day at home and it turned out to be a very special day.

 

This is probably a good time for Dad to say "Thanks".  Thanks for the emails, the visits, the phone calls and the cards.  Thanks for the food for us and the gifts for Afton.  I am amazed with how truly great and caring people can be in a time of need and crises.  I can assure you that Shauna and I do not feel alone in all of this.  We don't know exactly how to thank everyone individually.  So for now, Thank you!

 

We have many new pictures to post.  I will try to get to them soon.

 

Saturday May 7th, 2005

Afton is home!  We pulled in the driveway at 3:46PM Yesterday.  Sorry I have not updated the website in the last few days but we had to stay overnight at Childrens Mercy both Wednesday and Thursday.

 

Afton is doing well.  We went back to the hospital today for a scheduled appointment and to pick up Shauna's twenty pounds of frozen milk.

 

We are exhausted.  Since Wednesday, I have had a few sessions of 4 hours of sleep but, Shauna has only had one session and she is fading fast.  We may need some help.

  

Tuesday, May 3rd 2005 please note that this is a non-technical diary

I am tired of writing this acronym - DDAVP.  One more time for the people in the back -DDAVP!  This is the drug that helps Afton retain fluids.  In other words, Afton might urinate too much and not gain the weight, which most babies would gain naturally, without this drug.  For the last 29 days this topic has been lurking in the background and has paraded in the forefront.  Some days they seem to have it all figured out and other days you can see them scratching their heads from a distance.  But the fact remains.  This is a very complex drug to administer on a six pound baby and they need to nail it on the head before Afton can be released to our care.  We are just fine with this.  We will go home when they tell us that it is o.k. to go home but not until they are sure they have everything figured out.  This drug had first been given to Afton by nose drops and then by a shot and now by a crushed tablet.  They have tried different dosages starting with every 72 hours with nasal drops, 36 hours with shots as well as 24, 18 and 12 hours with the crushed pill.  Now they are back to every 24 hours.

     This is a description of DDAVP from a US Government Website:  Desmopressin is a chemical that is similar to a hormone found naturally in your body. It increases urine concentration and decreases urine production. Desmopressin is used to prevent and control excessive thirst, urination, and dehydration caused by injury, surgery, and certain medical conditions, allowing you to sleep through the night without awakening to urinate. It is also used to treat specific types of diabetes insipidus and conditions after head injury or pituitary surgery.

     On a good note!  We have had many positive experiences at Childrens Mercy.  We were able to meet with Afton's new Pediatrician today who has an office on site.  This is a big deal because his group was not accepting new patients and he was highly recommended.  I will not mention his name just yet.  However, there is one name I would like to mention.  Irma, Afton's nurse on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday nights.  We cherish the time we get to spend with her and miss every second that she is away.  Luckily she has offered her email address and phone number should we need anything regarding Afton's home care.  The truth is that we are going to call and write her - just to call and write her!  Irma has worked at Childrens Mercy for 37 years and is definitely the smartest, funniest and most loving person on the planet next to Afton's mom. 

 

Monday May 2nd, 2005

Afton's biggest problem today is that he is too small for his big car seat.  "The car seat specialist" at Children's Mercy brought us a car seat that accommodates smaller infants like Afton.  This is the kind of problem we can handle.  We were very impressed with Afton's demeanor today.  We changed his trach, gave him a warm bath and Mom administered her first shot to his leg.  He seemed to enjoy everything but the shot.  This does not appear to be the same baby that was in so much turmoil just a few short weeks ago.

 

Once the Hospital allows us to stay with Afton overnight we will then get to take him home.  We may get to stay overnight tomorrow or Wednesday but we are packing for tomorrow!  Now we are trying to organize our thoughts, medical equipment, medications, prayers and our house to make room for baby.  This is getting very exciting!

 

Sunday May 1st, 2005

Afton is coming home this week!  He is doing great and the Doctors are tweaking his meds. We will stay overnight with him before we depart.  We will meet with the discharge nurse in the next day or two.

 

Friday April 29th, 2005

Afton has had a good day.  We received word today that Mom and Dad's chromosomes check out normal!  We thought this would be the case but, you never know.   

 

This link will take you to an award winning microscopic picture of Mitosis 

http://www.microscopyu.com/smallworld/gallery/contests/1999/1stlarge1999.html

All of us carry 46 chromosomes (23 x 2) you should be able to tell by the blue in the picture where they meet.  Interesting stuff.

 

Apparently, Afton was in for trouble around week three after conception (that is as far back as I will take you).  Chromosome 18 in Afton did not form correctly.  From there, this abnormal chromosome duplicated itself over and over.  The Resident Doctor informed us that chromosome 18 is the most likely chromosome to get mutated.  This is probably true and we have no reason to doubt him but, I cant help thinking back to a few weeks ago when Afton's Geneticist said that the odds of someone having 18p- syndrome was 1 in 25,000 to 1 in 50,000. 

 

Thursday April 28th, 2005

Afton drank about the same amount of bottled milk today as he had yesterday.  Shauna performed her first trach change with no problems.  This was no surprise to Dad. The Doctors are still trying to regulate Afton's DDAVP dosage to where he receives a dose at twelve hour intervals.

 

Wednesday April 27th, 2005

Afton was wide awake and had a great time playing with his parents, Grandma and Aunt today.  Unfortunately, he could not give his full attention to his Occupational Therapist with the bottle of milk.  Afton received two bottle feedings and was able to chug down about half of each.  We like to look at the bottles as half-empty not half-full.  Mom gets to try and feed him by bottle tomorrow night.  We are rooting for a successful feed!

 

Tuesday April 26th, 2005

Afton's bottle feeding went well today.  He consumed 37cc's of his 57cc lunch.  Tomorrow he will attempt this same feat at 9:00AM and 3:00PM.  Our meeting with the PACCT Team went well; here are the highlights:

Afton will be going home in two weeks or less...because (1) his DDAVP levels are hard to regulate and the Doctors still need to track it (2) Doctors need to see how he takes to bottle feeding for a longer period of time (3) parents need a whole bunch of training for in home care.

 

Afton still has diaper rash but not much else seems to bother him lately.  He is weighing in at 6 pounds.  His color is good and he is taking to his trach pretty well.  Oh yeah, he had an eye exam today and "everything looks normal".  Last week his eyes were blue and now they appear to be greenish-brown. 

 

Monday April 25th, 2005

The first trach replacement went smoothly.  Quick and uneventful just as we hoped.  This is something we can certainly handle on our own from here.  A Physical Therapist came to feed a very sleepy Afton.  She might have had better luck with her syringe and pacifier had she been at Afton's crib side a little earlier or later.  She seemed to be on a tight schedule and will try again tomorrow.

   

Sunday April 24th, 2005

Afton has some chapped cheeks.  Yes, I mean diaper rash and he hates having his diaper changed.  But other than that there really is no news.  We are planning on a big week coming up.  The Endocrine Doctors will be replacing Afton's trach tomorrow and then we will try to bottle feed.  Afton seems to be taking to his pacifier real well and we hope that carries over to the bottle.  If he starts eating well on his own then we figure we can take him home by the weeks end.  Tuesday we meet with a group called the "PACCT Team", Pediatric Advanced Comfort Care Team, which includes Afton's Neonatalogist and some staff people to "coordinate a comprehensive plan of care" (straight from their brochure). 

 

Friday April 22, 2005

Shauna spent the better part of the day holding Afton and suctioning out his trach tube.  Afton is off pain medication and is prescribed Ativan (antipsychotic) when needed.  So far he has not been given a dose but his parents could sure use a few bottles of the stuff.

 

The Endocrine Surgeon says that "everything looks good with the trach" and one of his partners and a resident will be by on Monday to change out the trach tube.  They would like us there to see what they are doing so we can perform this at home. 

 

Thursday April 21, 2005

Afton got to sleep in his first crib today.  No more heat lamps or oxygen.  Mom finally got to hold him again during the bed switch. 

 

The trach comes with a device that we were not aware of until after his surgery.  A heated neck humidifier.  Apparently this bulky gadget has to come home with us.  Do not get me wrong we are not complaining we just want him home.  The moisture form the humidifier keeps his mucus from drying and plugging the tube. 

 

Shauna and I met with an endocrine Nurse who educated us on the medications we will need to administer once we get Afton home.  Afton (or anyone without a functioning pituitary) will need four meds a day to keep him going: 

  • Cortisol - a stress hormone.  Given by mouth.
  • Nutropin a growth hormone.  Injection once a day COST is $20,000 - $50,000 per year!
  • DDAVP anti diuretic hormone (or ADH).  Injection twice a day.
  • Levothyroxine - thyroid stimulating hormone.  Given by mouth.

 

Wednesday April 20th, 2005

Afton is sleeping quite a bit and receiving pain medication.  The Doctors say we can hold him again tomorrow.

 

Tuesday April 19th, 2005

Afton is recovering from surgey without a ventilator.  He needs a few days to recover before we are able to hold him again.  We are very proud of him and Mom says "He's a real Champ".  Now we can go to sleep.

 

Moday April 18th, 2005

Afton is scheduled for a tracheostomy surgery at 7:30 AM Tuesday April 19th.  He is receiving a blood transfusion today to get ready for his surgery in the morning.

 

Sunday April 17th, 2005

DDAVP levels are an issue.  DDAVP is a drug that helps Afton retain water.  A week ago, Afton was receiving this drug through nose drops at 72 hour intervals.  Today he is getting shots (sub q or "in the fat") every twelve hours.  The goal is for the Doctors to find the correct dosage.  They are still trying. 

 

Saturday April 16th, 2005

No real news today.  Afton loves his milk and gave some back to us.  Mom was a little concerned but he pulled through just fine.  Got some nice pictures for the home page.

 

Friday April 15th, 2005

The steroid drops are not working to relieive Afton's congestion.  Today, we and the Doctors agreed to proceed with a tracheostomy (see website for more info  www.tracheostomy.com/what.htm ).  The surgery will be scheduled for sometime next week depending on Afton's sodium and electrolyte levels.  The estimated recovery time should be five days.  The goal then will be to bottle feed and get him home approximately a week after that.  Afton is back on the Afrin and breathing like a champ.  Also, he is really enjoying his big meals and is gaining weight nicely.  His face and arms are getting chubby.  

                                                       

 

Wednesday April 13th, 2005

The Ear, Nose and Throat Group tells us that nasal stint surgery is not an option because Afton's nasal passages are too small.  Steroid drops are now being used on Afton to open up the airways but, the Doctors figure this is a long shot.  They will check for results on this in a few days.  We will administer three drops of steroids in each nostril three times a day should this fix the problem.  Unlike Afrin, the steroids can be given indefinitely.  With that said, I would still like to take a moment and thank the fine people at Afrin for offering such an ingenious product (although we use the Osco generic brand for ourselves).  If it does not work we only have two options.  Do nothing or give permission for a surgical tracheostomy.  Both of these options are disappointing but, we want him to breathe.  If needed, the trach surgery may happen as soon as Friday.  There is a higher risk factor for the tracheostomy surgery compared to the nasal surgery.

 

Afton's Billy levels are down.  That means the Jaundice is not an issue at this time.

 

Milk intake is up to 30cc's every three hours.  He will be ordered 40cc's in the next 24 to 48 hours which, is the average newborn feeding.

 

How is Afton?  He loves being held by his mother.  I keep saying this but, that is how he spends most of his day.  The nurses say that he is already spoiled.  WE SURE HOPE SO!

 

Tuesday April 12th, 2005

Afton gets very congested and it is hard for him to catch his breath.  Afrin nose drops do wonders for him.  Sunday was his last scheduled dose until we talked the Doctor into dousing him this evening.  Luckily, the Doctor on call hates when he himself has a cold and always reaches for the Afrin to relieve his congestion.  We got the Afrin and Afton quit fussing immediately and went to sleep.

 

I am not sure if today was a good day or bad day even though we had some breakthroughs. 

Good news:

  • Sodium levels finally hit their target (he urinated out enough fluid to require another dose of DDAVP)
  • The double dose of milk is being digested and excreted.

Not-so-good news:

  • Nasal stints require surgery.
  • Jaundice (Billy levels are up) is back and the lights will probably be back on soon.

 

Until now we have put our son's life in the hands of skilled practitioners.  Today, they turned the tables on us to advise them on how much care we should allow them to perform on Afton should he need to be resuscitated and if we agree with a surgical procedure.  We did not see this coming.  While the last few days have been encouraging; three Doctors today spoke with us at length about what has happened so far and what is in store for the future.

 

The Resident - I spoke with him unofficially before our meeting with the Geneticist.  He has a son with Cerebral palsy which is what has led him to this career path.  He took his newborn Son off life support after three months in intensive care and today his son is 25 and was never supposed to live to age one. 

Also, he believes that it is a tough job to get the correct mixture of hormones Afton needs to survive at the hospital.  As he grows (or has a cold etc.) these amounts will need to vary.  Getting them wrong one time could be fatal.

 

The Geneticist - We did not learn anything new from him today.  Last week he told us that a damaged brain might forget to tell the body to breathe and a growing damaged brain sometimes comes with seizures.

 

The Attending Neonatal Physician - We have four options regarding his very small nasal passages

1)  Surgically insert stints.  He will breathe through a ventilator until he can recover.  Bone will be removed to make way for plastic tubes that will allow for better breathing.  These stints must be surgically removed as well.  The Doctor estimates that Afton's survival rate during this procedure is 99%.

2)  Tracheotomy procedure.  Again surgical.

3)  Put Afton on a ventilator until his nasal passages grow.

4)  Do nothing.

We want the stints.

Next, we were told that Afton could possibly live a long time but he will most likely have these problems:

  • Mental Retardation -  since he has the less severe "lobar" HPE he will probably be able to speak some words and put small sentences together.
  • Slow development - he may someday be able to walk.
  • 50% risk for seizures - seizures are potentially fatal. 
  • Risk for Apnea - potentially fatal.

 

 

Monday Aril 11th, 2005

Afton had another good day.

 

Afton had a CT scan which was ordered by the ear, nose and throat group.  They want to see how small his nasal passages are.  They think they might need to insert a stint or two in his nasal passages.  He gets real clogged up and it is very difficult for him to catch his breath.  The doctor ordered double the amount of milk every three hours.  The day was full of food and being held by his thankful parents.

 

Afton just may have a new friend.  Ayden Emanuels was born yesterday with a clean bill of health and weighed in at 8lb 14oz.  His parents, John and Leslie Emanuels (of KC by way of Seattle, WA) are friends with Shauna and Kevin so I'm sure these kids will become fast friends.

 

Sunday April 10th, 2005

More Good News!

 

Afton's Jaundice is down to a normal level and that means "no more bright lights and foamy sun goggles".  Those goggles really irritated him (and us).  Also, his CPAP (oxygen and moisture mix that goes deep into the nasal cavities) is off for good.  This means less junk on/in him and Mommy gets to hold Baby!  What else?  Oh, yeah.  Afton is digesting Mom's milk like a real champ! 

 

How is Afton? Afton had Twenty One visitors today and got a good look at them, one by one, from the comfort of Mommys arms.  note: Afton had the best looking group of visitors that Chidren's Mercy has ever seen!

 

How are Mom and Dad? Shauna is thrilled to finally hold Afton again.  Dad is exhausted.

                                                             

Saturday April 9th, 2005

More Good News!

 

I am clumsy at best when it comes to medical terminology.  Shauna, on the other hand, has a big Nursing Degree's vocabulary when it comes to this sort of thing.  On our way home from the Hospital tonight she answered a call from an old nursing school mate that was inquiring on Afton's progress.  I did not understand any of the medical jargon that was spilling out of her mouth and into her phone.  With that said: I will now dictate Afton's day today as my wife gets technical.

  • His urine output is down which means his DDAVP hormone replacement is working and keeping fluids in his body which keeps his sodium level lowered.
  • His blood gases are down to a normal level.
  • CMP levels, which were all over the chart, are now within the normal range.
  • He is tolerating feedings through an NG tube.
  • Produced his first stool (his first real gift to his parents).

 

How is Afton?  The kid has lungs!  He was cranky again today but I could not blame him.  There are tubes in his nose (3 to be exact), people waking him up from deep sleeps, bright lights, loud people and machines, smelly smells, tubes in his arm and head, sticky things on his chest and belly, shots in the leg..."but", Afton seems to say, "when they let my mommy pick me up; I stop crying right away". 

 

How are Mom and Dad?  Real well considering the circumstances.  We are finding encouragement from the thoughtful cards, letters and phone calls that have been coming in.  There have now been a few good days in a row.  We will pray that this trend lasts.

 

Friday April 8th, 2005

Finally!  Some good news!

Afton got a clean bill of health on the Echo-cardiogram AND the upper G.I.!

He gets to try the bottle again tomorrow.

He was holding more fluids in AND his Jaundice numbers are going down.

Afton is still doing just fine without an oxygen hood.

There is no more Bile being spit up.

He had a good temperature this evening.

But...he was a little cranky.

 

The parents met with the Geneticist late this afternoon.  This was not a happy visit by any means.  The Doctor told us that before Afton ended up with HPE his chromosomes were out of whack because there is a missing piece from the short arm of chromosome 18.
There are 2 arms p & q.  Part of the upper arm (or p) was missing.  So there is a name for this:

Chromosome 18 Syndrome or 18 p - (18 p minus).  Extremely Rare (of course)

 

18 p - looks pretty nasty all on its own.  In fact, it looks much like HPE.  Note: Doctor gave us a pamphlet that gave stats which read that the average birth weight is 5 lb 11 0z.  Guess how much Afton weighed at birth? Yes, you are very smart: 5 lb 11 oz.  here is the pamphlet: http://www.chromosome18.org/syndrome_pminus.htm

 

Shauna and I are scheduled to have our blood drawn on Monday to see if this chromosome came from one of us.  It will take a few weeks to get the results back.  The Doctor says if we get a good report then we will have the same risk of Shauna getting pregnant as all the other Jane's and John's out there in Regularville.  This seems encouraging and scary.  We are not jumping at the chance to find out right now because we have much bigger fish to fry.

 

Thusday April 7th, 2005

3:30 PM Afton is out from underneath the oxygen hood!  However, there are some issues that the Attending Doctor seemed concerned about:

  • Afton is thowing up Bile so an upper G.I. has been ordered for Tomorrow morning.
  • An Echo-cardiogram is also scheduled for tomorrow.
  • The 18th Chromosome is missing in Afton's blood and seems to be the cause of his HPE Lobar (this seems to be extremely rare)
  • Kevin and Shauna are meeting with the Geneticist Team.   They will draw our blood and note Family history.  Hopefully they can better explain what we can expect with Afton's health today and his future. 
  • The Endocrinologist reported that Afton's Pituitary is not functioning or does not exist.  Hormone supplements will now be a part of Afton's life.

 

HOW IS AFTON? He sleeps most of the day and seems to enjoy his parents company.  His Nurses are caring-take-charge-nurturing ladies that are experts at communicating. 

 

HOW ARE MOM & DAD? Shauna kept real busy with visitors and pumping milk this afternoon. 

 

Wednesday April 6th, 2005

The MRI results suggest Afton has "Lobar" type HPE - At this point Mom and Dad feel this is good news considering the alternatives.

 

HOW IS HE? Afton has difficulty getting oxygen to his lungs.  His passages are narrow and he seems congested.  When he breathes his chest caves in pretty deep and his little belly expands.  Today he is under a heat lamp to maintain his temperature and lights for his Jaundice.  His head is inside an oxygen hood.  He has an I.V. in his head and an artery Line (a big tube to extract blood) in his right arm.  He cries only when he is agitated.  He is not yet feeding because his ear, nose and throat Dr's want to keep congestion to a minimum. 

 

HOW ARE MOM AND DAD? Positive and in love with our new angel and with each other.  It is difficult to see Afton developing so many problems.  We decided early on that we need to do whatever it takes so Afton can have the best chance for survival and quality of life.

Tuesday April 5th, 2005

The Doctors all agree that Afton has holoprosencephaly (HPE).  This is bad news.  There are apparently three or four types of this disease and we will find out the severity after an MRI. 

Here is the first thing that popped up when I searched Google:                                

 About Holoprosencephaly
Carter Centers for Brain Research in Holoprosencephaly and Related Malformations.
www.stanford.edu/group/hpe/about/ - 9k - Cached - Similar pages

 

Shauna and I got a much needed six hours of sleep last night and we look forward to getting back to the hospital to see Afton.  I am very proud of how well she is coping with our situation.  She is encouraging us to stay positive. 

 

Monday April 4th,  2005

3:30 AM Shauna's water broke and we checked in at St Mary's Hospital in Blue Springs.  At 6:00 AM we had her in a delivery room.

 

Afton was born at 1:01 PM and weighed in at 5lbs and 11ozs and measured 18.5 inches long.  Dr. Doan, of Blue Springs, assisted Shauna and the epidural in the natural delivery.  Labor lasted about 4 hours and Mom pushing lasted approximately 7 to 8 minutes.  There were no complications during delivery.  We were accompanied by two seasoned Nurses from St. Mary's. 

 

Afton was swiftly towel dried and received by his smiling and relieved Mom.  I (Dad) cut the chord. 

 

Problems with physical traits were immediately noticed including swollen eyelids, nose position and an abnormal genitalia. Two visits from Doctors "on call" from Childrens Mercy led to Afton being transferred to Children's Mercy Hospital in Kansas City MO.

 

 

 

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